Relationships can be hard especially in a place like the Bay, where life moves fast and expectations run high. The pressure of career demands, housing stress, cultural diversity, and shifting gender roles can quietly strain connection over time. Many couples come to therapy feeling like roommates, stuck in the same fights, or unsure how to bridge emotional and physical distance.

I offer online couples counseling for Bay Area couples who want something more: more intimacy, more connection, more collaboration. Whether you’re navigating a new chapter, recovering from betrayal, or dealing with mismatched desire, therapy can be a space to pause, reflect, and repair.

My work integrates a systems theory lens, the Gottman Method (Level 2 trained), and an attachment-based approach to help you understand each other not just communicate better, but feel safer and more seen. I also support couples in exploring their sexual connection, addressing common issues like low libido, performance anxiety, or confusing fantasies with care and openness.

You don’t need to wait for a crisis to begin. Many of the couples I work with are high functioning and know something feels off. Many are also finally ready to stop repeating the same unsatisfying patterns.

Whether you're in San Francisco, Oakland, San Jose, or anywhere in California, our sessions happen via secure video so you can focus on your relationship without the commute.

Let’s work together to help your relationship feel less like survival and more like home.